Trans Day of Remembrance
“For it was you who formed my inward parts…I am wonderfully made…” Psalm 139:13-14, NRSV
Every year on November 20th, Transgender Day of Remembrance honors the memory of transgender, non-binary, and gender-nonconforming people lost to anti-transgender violence.
We invite you to join us for our TDOR Worship Service Nov. 20th, 7 pm EST (2025 – Worship Bulletin), and to explore our worship resources below, as well as our extensive offering of how the United Church of Christ continues to love LGBTQIA+ people OUT LOUD.
Psalm 139 serves as continuous hum of this truth: You are wonderfully made because the divine formed you – making infinite space for you to be whoever you are – for you to transcend over and over again – so that no earthly thing; no person; no empire – can take your soul binding; queerly divine; wonderfully made being.

R Ward, they/them, Minister for Gender & Sexuality Justice
We honor the loss of our siblings by chanting louder in our lives; by refusing to be silent; by telling the truth of how wonderful of a creation we are – God loves you. We love you.
Watch the Livestreamed Service
Thursday, November 20, 2025
TDOR Worship Resources
Prayers & Liturgy
Trans day of remembrance and resilience – an intimate and serious thing.
A necessary ritual for the ones grieving all year long
the perpetuation of unnecessary death.
May remembrance not be in vain nor in vanity,
coupled with conscious complicity in the structures that enable and encourage the destruction of life.
May participation in mourning precipitate working for change alongside the living.
Let this grief make way for resisting whiteness centering itself this day and others.
Let this ritual be a practice of collective refocusing on the roots of sexism and transmisogynoir in manifestations of anti-trans violence.
Let the visibility of this day,
the complicatedness of what it has become,
the chance to recenter its attention,
tell the entire truth
about what creates the conditions for such death:
The class realities. The prejudices and policies against sex workers.
The theologies. The misogyny.
The politics of respectability.>
The colonialization.
The transphobia in all its forms.
And the white supremacy from which so much of it is birthed.
Over these,
and all they steal,
we weep.
by M Jade Kaiser of Enfleshed

Call to Worship
Blessed be the Non-Conforming One.
God, who took on flesh
Of the economically oppressed,
Of an immigrant,
of an infant.
Whose family and birth was anything but traditional.
This Holy One won’t be hindered by social norms.
She defies our expectations.
She challenges our preconceptions.
She awakens us to new possibilities.
Praise be to God, the queerest of us all.
by M Jade Kaiser of Enfleshed

“The United Church of Christ for over 25 years continues to show up for our LGBTQIA+ community, and we will continue to boldly love our siblings OUT LOUD for many more years to come.” – R Ward, they/them, Minister for Gender & Sexuality Justice
Within this comprehensive document is an overview of the United Church of Christ’s continued commitment to Trans Equity and Inclusion within the Church.